tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-556244667380539611.post3822001528986897775..comments2017-02-23T20:35:11.975-08:00Comments on Lip Gloss & Pepper Spray: Ouch, That's My IdentityUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-556244667380539611.post-66844650105818775082007-07-18T12:19:00.000-07:002007-07-18T12:19:00.000-07:00Yeah sometimes I wonder how much if it is everybod...Yeah sometimes I wonder how much if it is everybody else and how much of it is me. Do they <I>really</I> not believe me or am I assuming they don't? Do they <I>really</I> think I'm awful for it or am I assuming that they do? <BR/><BR/>I really recommend Jennifer Baumgardner's book <A HREF="http://feministing.com/archives/006877.html" REL="nofollow"> "Look Both Ways: Bisexual Politics"</A> both for it's insights into what it means (and how it feels) to be bisexual and for lots of interesting feminist history.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04797537583842251728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-556244667380539611.post-51459942530087388052007-07-17T11:44:00.000-07:002007-07-17T11:44:00.000-07:00You know what really hurts? Is when you're the on...You know what really hurts? Is when you're the one doing the labeling - to yourself. What if I'm not gay enough for me? What if I'm not straight enough for me? And while, most of the time, I'm 100% comfortable to be who I am, when I am, but sometimes there's something that says, "Make a fucking choice! Don't keep switching back and forth!" ... but you know what? I did make a choice. It was for love.Hendershotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08849010456857688719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-556244667380539611.post-46932211502949053602007-07-17T10:18:00.000-07:002007-07-17T10:18:00.000-07:00right on sister. the limits of our language and t...right on sister. the limits of our language and the small-mindedness of people have turned us all into rabid labelers, more concerned with what a person is than if we actually enjoy spending time with them. hey, you seem nice. wait-you're a lesbian? i'm going to need to rethink how i feel about you as a person now. <BR/>so, props to you for calling us on our bullshit, and for daring to be bi in this one or the other world.megahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16880764983925063240noreply@blogger.com